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Maya, 28

Austin, TX · Graphic designer

Flaws first

needs alone time to recharge cries at everything chronically early terrible at confrontation no kids (firm) talks to her cat like a person
"I will be 20 minutes early to everything and silently judge anyone who's late. I'm working on it. Slowly."

Looking for

Something real. Someone who doesn't need me to be 'on' all the time.

Dealbreakers

Smokers, people who are rude to servers, anyone who says 'I'm not really a dog person.'

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Marcus, 34

Chicago, IL · High school teacher

Flaws first

overshares immediately morning disaster before coffee #2 extremely loud laugher wants kids eventually terrible with money cancels plans to read sometimes
"I once cried at a Budweiser commercial. The one with the horse. I'm not sorry about it."

Looking for

Someone who laughs too loud with me. Someone who gets that I'm a lot, and decides that's good.

Dealbreakers

Anyone who thinks vulnerability is weakness.

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Sofia, 30

Los Angeles, CA · Product manager

Flaws first

pathologically honest overthinks every text stress-cleans instead of dealing night owl forever independent to a fault strong opinions about everything
"I will analyze your 'k.' response for 45 minutes. I know it's a lot. I'm telling you upfront."

Looking for

Someone secure enough to not need me to be soft all the time. I'll get there, just slowly.

Dealbreakers

Games. Breadcrumbing. Anyone who thinks playing it cool is the same as having feelings.

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Derek, 32

Atlanta, GA · Physical therapist

Flaws first

terrible texter (but calls) avoidant when overwhelmed working through stuff two dogs (non-negotiable) conflict-averse falls hard fast
"I will not text you back for six hours and then call you for 45 minutes. I know. I'm working on the texting thing."

Looking for

Patience. I come with two large dogs and a lot of love. I'm told that's actually a good deal.

Dealbreakers

Dog allergies. Anyone who needs constant digital availability. Anyone who thinks 'emotionally unavailable' is cute.

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Priya, 27

New York, NY · UX researcher

Flaws first

over-researcher (dates, restaurants, everything) anxiously attached hates surprises no smoking or drugs talks with her hands constantly introvert pretending otherwise
"I will have read three reviews of the restaurant before you even confirm the time. It's fine. I pick good places."

Looking for

Consistency. Someone whose actions match their words. That's it. That's all.

Dealbreakers

Hot-and-cold energy. Inconsistency. Anyone who thinks needing reassurance is clingy.

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Eli, 36

Seattle, WA · Software architect

Flaws first

deeply introverted blunt (kindly, but still) no children (decided) doesn't do small talk needs a lot of space extremely particular about food
"I will not do small talk. If you ask how my day was, I will tell you honestly that it was mediocre and explain why."

Looking for

Someone who can sit in comfortable silence. Someone who means what they say.

Dealbreakers

Anyone who needs constant social plans. Anyone who says 'you should smile more.'

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